Showing posts with label general psychology. Show all posts
Showing posts with label general psychology. Show all posts

Sunday, April 26, 2020

#finishthesentencefriday Hot chocolate with chilli for dead gentlemen [Waitrose]; choc banana muffins with psychologists [Henshaw]; tiger salad with friends on/for your side [Liaw]

"When nearly every glass thing in a Cambridge house is broken ... what else can you do but to give your neighbour a plastic bowl of chutney" #thechutneyofeton [Image of herbs and two bowls of chutney and a green-yellow-orange-red human] [text resumes] "And sensible people do not usually fob off dogs or parrots with chocolate biscuits" [hashtags] #thatbarofrespect #modifythebehavioursettlethescore [text resumes; new paragraph] Dogs and parrots usually have the intelligence of at least a 3-year-old; and for dogs chocolate is specifically contraindicated. [paragraph ends] [new paragraph] Some will remind that what I mean by [emphasis] intelligence [emphasis ends] : social and emotional regulation and inter/transcultural adaptation. [hashtags] #chutneywithheart #chutneyforbrains [hashtags end] Not a great time to have a birthday or a big celebration (especially if you're a kid)!
15 April 2020
Hot chocolate is for gentlemen; not for dogs or parrots!
Chutney, on the other hand, is an inclusive recipe
and a great gift...


I will always remember reading an early scene in the Readers' Digest Condensed Work of Sound of a Miracle when Annabel Stehli and her younger daughter Georgiana were cooking together in the labour-saving kitchen device world of 1960s Connecticut.

It was with a mixer and a blender - both of which give vibrations on glass or in a wooden pot - which in the frequencies that complement or over-ride speech and language input/stimulation - and then the yelling.

Say it! - Annabel said to Georgie.

It was after Georgie had failed to say cook several times.

Annabelle felt failure and disappointment at that. She thought her daughter was deliberately withholding.

It is possible that Georgie might have heard only O or everything exceptionally loud and intrusively... or the hard consonants may have clashed and clanged.

And if Georgie had any attachment or feeling for mechanical things or their sensory effects ... this was countered by highly aversive stimuli. Hence her response.

A #textandcontext point for you lot: this was before Georgie had any sort of formal diagnostic process. And certainly before she was institutionalised - first in a very famous New York City hospital and some years later - the early 1970s - a place known as Childville in the book.

Georgie thought other people were strong and brave because they coped with all the sounds in the world and within their bodies - like heartbeats. As you know I think Georgie is strong and brave for so long - until 1976 when she came to Annecy to work with Guy Berard and Cecile Wuarin for those ten days. And all the work afterwards when she came to realise her potential as an artist, a mother, a polyglot and a highly engaging TV guest on shows like Sally Jessy Raphael and I think Donahue - certainly the talk show culture of the early 1990s.

Stehli wrote two other interesting books called Dancing in the Rain and a Snow book which I read about in the early 2000s on Amazon [I remember it was mid-December 2000 when I was answering a Christmas quiz] - or possibly in a review or two. These are short essays of other parents and children who had auditory integration therapy or another closely related sensory-friendly/sensory-informed treatment.

A few months after I read that excerpt and I was watching Blossom or Full House I tried to cook some gingerbread in the microwave.

The microwave had come into my house about a year before and it may or may not have opened so much.

In my house fresh food and garden-sourced food is very important. So most things - snacks and meals - are eaten more or less raw. Levi-Strauss for the win!

Warm drink-making was an important part of my training. Cause and effect is somehow more easily seen - and the role of contribution - when you make a smoothie or a milkshake. And a sound-proof and distraction-free room is important.

Various relatives have been in the hospitality industry - one made Mexican [more properly Tex-Mex food with Commonwealth of Nations characteristics] food on the regular; another worked as a saucier and knew the five basic sauces very well indeed.

I can make a decent tartar sauce.

Some years later - we are in 1996 here - I was expanding my literary powers and for the first time I killed off a character. I will clarify - this is the first time I killed off a character in my Fenland educational narrative.

This character was a psychologist and he really loved his Ovaltine. His name was Dean Swallell.

My protagonist was writing a fictional work which sent her and several of her friends and classmates all over the county and country. And she met Dean.

The point about Dean is that he was a gentleman - gentilhomme - the sort of person who being more than non-threatening - is a joy to work with.

Someone you can be honest with and be able to stay honest - or even in the room!

Sometimes les psychologues like or prefer you and them to maintain the relationship outside the session and the offices.

In that context you may make - or they may offer - in this third place/location:

Hot chocolate and chilli

Today I borrowed a recipe from Waitrose and the only change I would make is the chocolate can come from anywhere - it is the proportion which matters. Also the multiples. Taste.com.au also have several good ones and I think another recipe website. If your favourite magazine or one you read has a Test Kitchen [not a Test Chicken!] that is so much to the good - like GOOD HOUSEKEEPING or the AUSTRALIAN WOMEN'S WEEKLY or BETTER HOMES AND GARDENS.

And there are Test Kitchen principles and practices you can adapt.


Chilli Hot Chocolate

This is the most fantastic combination of rich chocolate with spicy chilli. South Americans have been matching these ingredients for centuries - we are just catching on! If you'd prefer not to use chilli, the hot chocolate will still taste delicious without it.
  • Preparation time:10 minutes, plus infusing
  • Cooking time:5 minutes
  • Total time:15 minutes, plus infusing 25 minutes
Serves: 8

Ingredients

  • 1.136-litres whole milk
  • 2 red chillies
  • 200g Plain Chocolate, broken into small pieces
  • 200ml single cream

Method

  1. Pour the milk into a saucepan. 
  2. Carefully slice the chillies in half lengthways and deseed, leaving the stalks attached in order to remove them from the milk easily. 
  3. Add to the milk.
  4. Slowly bring to a shivering simmer. Remove from the heat and infuse for 10 minutes, so that the milk takes on the chilli flavour. Reheat the milk, add the broken chocolate and cream and stir on a low heat until the chocolate is dissolved. Remove and discard the chillies. Serve garnished with a slice of fresh chilli.
Ah - seems simple!

I thought there would be 700 grams of the chocolate.

When Maman and I would type recipes we would make the verbs bold and put them at the start of the sentences/phrases. This applied to school and community fundraising campaigns throughout the 1990s and even into the 2000s.

Many companies have a public service interest when it comes to recipes. You never know when someone might like to eat choc banana muffins. A challenge for you: when it comes to muffins do you say --

  • banana and chocolate muffins
  • muffins with chocolate and banana
If muffins were people [and sometimes parts of people are referred to as "Muffin"/muffin] there would be a split.

Some of you - or most of the people who read Halfway up Rysy Peak - would want to respect the muffin's identity as it itself has stated it. For example, a muffin might be a banana muffin through and through and doesn't acknowledge their chocolate part. That is fair; we respect that!

Thank you Laura Henshaw from Keep it Cleaner - she also works as a Vitality Ambassador for an insurance company.

I noticed there was Greek yoghurt; milk; rice malt syrup/healthy sweetener - and that there is a lot of choice and option within this recipe. Yes - it is important to be flexible!

  • 3 medium ripe bananas
  • 2 eggs
  • 2 heaped tablespoon Greek yoghurt
  • 1/2 cup milk of choice
  • 2 tablespoons rice malt syrup
  • 1 cup almond meal
  • 1 cup flour of choice [gluten free/plain/spelt]
  • 1 teaspoon baking powder
  • 80 grams dark chocolate chips
  • coconut oil or butter for greasing [optional]
  1. Preheat oven to 180 degrees.
  2. Line muffin tray with patty pans or coconut butter.
  3. Mash bananas in large mixing bowl.
  4. Add eggs; Greek yoghurt; milk; rice malt syrup to the banana mixture
In another bowl [this is the whole wet and dry ingredient issue] combine almond meal; baking powder and chocolate chips.
Add the wet mixture to the dry mixture and mix until combined. The next mixture should be of similar consistency to a standard muffin mix.
Bake in the oven for 20-25 minutes or until muffins are cooked through when checked with a skewer and golden brown on top. As oven temperatures may vary, be sure to check these are thoroughly cooked through before moving on from the oven. You may need to leave them in a couple of extra minutes.

There - that was not so painful - at least not to type! It may be painful to make.

If you like savoury muffins those are good to be able to make as well. Especially with spring onions and/or chives and pumpkin.

This recipe of chocolate and banana muffin was found at the back of a magazine - one where a comedian is being interviewed about what he knows about women. This comedian's mum was really fun to hang out with!


Right now it is Ramadan and the crescent moon was in the sky a week ago.

Coronavirus became very serious with the Lunar New Year and all the travelling which could not be done. We are all trying to #stayathome and #slowthespread.

This recipe comes from a Master Chef of ten years ago - Adam Liaw. In Mandarin it would be called Lahou Cai and nearly every website - New York Times; British Broadcasting Corporation; Special Broadcasting Service; France24; Deutsche Welle - has a version or two of it. 

Liaw's serving suggestion is that TIGER SALAD is sufficient for four people. He also makes a comment about the role of salads and side dishes in northern Chinese cuisine:

• 4 thick spring onions
• 1 Lebanese cucumber, peeled, deseeded and cut into thin batons
• ½ green capsicum, very thinly sliced
• 1 large red chilli, very thinly sliced

• 1 cup loosely packed coriander sprigs
Dressing
• ½ tsp sugar
• 1 tsp soy sauce
• 2 tsp rice vinegar
• 1 tsp sesame oil
Halve the spring onions lengthways and slice very thinly on a steep diagonal. 
Place the slices in a bowl of cold water and refrigerate for 20 minutes to curl. 
Combine the cucumber, capsicum, chilli and coriander in a bowl and refrigerate along with the spring onion....
Combine the ingredients for the dressing and stir to dissolve the sugar. 
Drain the spring onions well and combine all the ingredients and dressing together. 
Toss and serve immediately.

Now this is quite a mouth-watering recipe!

And I do not quite understand 'thin batons'. When I cut cucumber I cut it into halves and then slice it. Usually with the skin on.

I do understand 'very thinly sliced' though ...

and it seems that half the recipe has disappeared? The bit of the recipe to do with the dressing? Some people have their stuff white-linked or reversed. Or perhaps this came through in the wash.

The chilli does make it very tiger-like, doesn't it? So do the coriander sprigs.

It is a terrific recipe to have with friends - especially if they love cuisines which are on the edge of cultures.

And some people love tomatoes - or tomato sauce - with everything. One example is Australian footballer Tayla Harris... another example is a tour guide and traveller.


I have noticed in both the chilli recipes that deseeding is important. What do you do with chilli seeds? Do you save them; do you dry them out; do you replant them?

I will end as I began - with another cooking story from the world of educational psychology as that has come down to us in the popular literature.

Group work this time [though much good cooking and preparing is group work especially for entertainment purposes] - an eight-year-old with a very big heart and who can barely read has a moment with a mixing bowl.

This author has a very famous ice-cream recipe and is a great hand with dulce de leche.

It is a moment worthy of Flora Rheta Schreiber and her belles-lettres.

Our young lady breaks the bowl and the whole world comes crashing.

She did have other positive cooking experiences where her friends were on her side and for her.



She exposed them to a life full of recipes and beyond recipes.




Friday, July 12, 2019

Happy eightieth birthday Philip Adams! #latenightlive

Happy 80th birthday Phillip Adams!

Fiedler is interviewing him and having a conversation.

He is talking about the farm and the kangaroos and feral animals who live there.

He has an apartment in Kings Cross.

“Does living on a property change the way you see the world?”

When he was small he tilled the soil with donkeys and no motor vehicle or electronic appliances.

LNL is a wireless programme.

William Smith Adams - what you saw is what you got - no fragmentation of the personality.

These days people have multiple personality disorder - change and reconfigure and . In contrast Grandpa was just grandpa.

He had a quiet wisdom and tranquility.

Bob Ellis called it the curse of interruption. - now is a great neon lit search lit sign which lasts a neurosecond -ahem, a nanosecond!

Reverend Charles Adams.

Sue Ellen Smith was Adams’ Mum. She came from Maryborough or did they live there?

Phil is two years old. His dad is writing a sermon. There is this vast thunderous noise and he looks up through the peppercorn trees and the sky is on fire.

He crashed through this door - thunder and lightning - he went to his father for comfort.

His first memory is apocalyptical.

“How so,” asks Fidler.

“A terrible sense of dread and mortality”.

A tiny farm on the outskirts of Melbourne - he was about four when it happened - and he was terrified of death and infinity and mortality.

It was dreadful and full of terror.

Christianity was the family business - he tried to believe in Charles’ god and failed miserably.

The Congregational Manse.

He joined the Communist party when he was 15 years old. 1954.

He felt the sting of poverty? Was everyone poor around?

The whole area was gentrified and something.

He went to school in badly hand-made clothing and a bike he was ashamed still to have pedalled.

Bullied for being an oddball and for being poor.

Kerry Packer was called a boofhead - so was Phillip Adams!

Reverend Charles called him Headling as a middle name. Kid with the big bum called Bottomley - it was like that.

A large papier-mâché head which he filled with brains - he didn’t quite decide to fill his head like that.

The only safe escape was books for Philip - the East Kew subbranch of the library.

Grandma and Grandad would send 2 romance books form the street - and also William books he would read for the 50th time and Biggles too.

The librarian went up the step and took Philip an adult book - The Grapes of Wrath.

All kids feel the battle and victimhood of injustice - something systemic and significant.

Your life is a walk in the park compared to others.

Mother partnered with a sleepy businessman who was abusive and violent.

His father didn’t protect him when his life was appalling - father was weak and appalling.

He broke off relations with his father and never spoke for 30-40 years until he died.

The poor businessman - PA made a bonfire of the PB/SB with his mother - at least his stuff.

Michael Burke is the guy’s name. Al Garnett character - ignorant and offensively unpleasant.

He must have been some kind of anti-father. And he tried to murder Philip - he was not a nice person.

Philip tried to protect his mother. He died too easily and painfully from a heart attack.

It was a ceremonial bonfire - suits; Lodge apron; [he was a Freemason]

Fidler’s dad could not bear to see a kid in a bad situation - and Philip supports children’ refuges like the Emblings.

The playground was not a playground - it was a little “hell on earth”.

The cruelty of children on each other - child-on-child abuse. It was just as bad as adult-on-kid abuse.

Blend and merge at the end of every school day.

With incredible shame - Mongoloid would be hanging out on the swings and PA and friends would pick on him.

The first refugee kids were arriving from Europe - PA was 6 to 14 when it was all happening. [1945-1953]

A shamed memory of what children do to children.

How did Philip choose to be an optimist? Not going to live that wounded self - a larger; more enthusiastic life.

On the cosmic level - you live in a meaningless universe without purpose - you give it a subjective meaning - meaning in another sense.

Philip’s meaning was trying to seek and find judgement. He was radicalised.

Comedy and humour was another radicalising and cathartic force for Philip - love is more congenial on balance.

Laughter contains great truths and he was a columnist for everyone - very inclusive

John Clarke had a genius for a compassionate satire.

He left because of the Soviet invasion of Hungary when he was 17 [1956].

Then you put a concentration camp on the utopia and it gets bigger and bigger and the utopia gets smaller and smaller.

A monumental claim collapses from its own contradictions.

-ology became suspect.

He was expelled? resigned? it was a time of chaos - it was the Prague Spring which was the final straw in 1968. That was when he was 29.

He stumbled into the Labor Party and was very embroiled in it.

More recently he resigned in a huff about the Kevin Rudd coup.

Rudd doesn’t have many friends - Philip is one of them.

Utopianism is mad and nuts and it leads to greed, grief and unintended consequences.

The most sterile and capitalistic endeavour you can be in - advertising.

The demands of the huge multinational clients - every boutique agency is run by an ex-Communism and Trotskyist.

The cunning plan to offer things people can’t afford. Manipulating the masses.

The late 1950s and 1960s - Australia had no film industry and there was ONE Australian play - that would be Summer of the Seventeenth Doll.

An odd Australian Council in advertising agencies - Schepsisi and Carey and Bruce Petty.

Amazing things done with the Australian film industry with Gorton and onwards.

The conquest of Australia House! Snags being cooked!

“How did you get away with stuff like that?”

“Nothing like a camera with you to engender resistance”.

Beresford/Humphries/Adams and Bazza McKenzie and the government executive. The GE was on the phone.

Please try to avoid too many Australian colloquialisms.

He was very proud that he kept his promise - Knock your dunny down into the grass.

“This is a family show”.

Converted them back into proper English - shove your head up in the dead bear’s bum. And the correct English translation is stuff your cranium

Then we talk about the major columns in THE AUSTRALIAN and THE AGE.

Newspapers didn’t used to have columns -they were news wall-to-wall.

Graham Perkin was a legend - “Newspapers are in their dotage, don’t you realise,” said Philip Adams.

“Our newspapers will become a sagging lump.

“They’ve already seen the news and it’s on flipping television”.

Perkin took that on board and Adams was the first columnist for the Age.

He wrote about meaninglessness and could do this at intense and extensive length.

He had two pages in the Age and was encouraged to ramble.

John Singleton said he was a million words in desperate need of an editor.

And everyone else was doing it too - and he got lots and lots of letters.

There are 600 boxes of correspondence which are in the bowels of the National Library in Canberra.

They were in the farm in the shearing shed and rats were gobbling them up.

He would get some 20,000 letters. He would answer them all with his dictaphone.

Invariably now the letters are e-mailed.

He never wrote a poem - he dictated it.

We would go to the Bulletin or the Nation Review and he would do the same with correspondent.

How does he deal with abusive letters?

Bill Leak had a terrible letter from Timms - “Your offer that I should marry your daughter interested me greatly. Please send photo” he said as reply.

Which arsehole did it come off?

To this day it was delivered in perfect order from Australia Post - they can’t even deliver a Compact Disc without breaking it!

Did it have some structural integrity to it?!

Fidler was in a comedy group when he was younger.

and 2GB was when PA was working - “Total vision is a passing fad. Radio will outlive the passing parade like a cockroach”.

“radio was like two of you the guest and the listener sitting at a small table”.

That is why Gladys was invented - it wasn’t a joke about low ratings.

It’s a truth - it’s not a mass medium - it’s not like television - that broadcast energy.

You’re not shouting like - it amplifies the human ego - look at the shock jock phenomenon.

Don’t beat visitors or listeners with a point of view or your point of view.

Fidler can’t think of another guy like Adams [Adams is a bunch of guys, yes?].

2UE was considered a radio hellhole - RN was considered a Station of Lecturers.

Robyn Williams is an awesome science communicator since the 1970s and 1980s.

When he arrived at Radio National - it still talked to people like a university lecturer talked to a student. philip thought it was wrong.

Honorifics: forget them! Address the guest by their first name.

Then you’ve got to be two people talking - remind them how important they are at first.

You take people as you find them in an Australian egalitarian way.

Oh, yes, the book of australian jokes - the Hawke joke.

“There are 2 corpses on the Hawke library - one is a wallaby and one is a politician”

“There are skid marks on the wallaby”.

Isn’t that fantastic in that irreverence? So was Keating especially about Gough Whitlam.

PA collects ex-Prime-Ministers. And diplomats who have to behave themselves in office and then they tell the truth ex-officio.

They tend to be wounded  - and yes politics is a very cruel profession.

When Keating was reduced to human rubble.

Rudd did not leave the political process entirely unfazed or unscathed.

And, yes politicians do age at this accelerated rate.

You’d swear it was 20 after 5 or 10 years leaving office.

Advice from J Lang - watch how politicians treat drivers cleaners waiters nurse flight attendants.

And Keating DID marry a flight attendant - Annita Iersel.

80th birthday - people express great happiness when he bounces back from the grave.

A question to Ita - Ita is not in the first flush of youth herself.

Alan Jones admit to being just 70.

John Laws is 85.

Someone is 95 and still on the air [1923, right?].

Australians are not good at #talkingaboutdeath

We say that they’ve passed away or passed.

They will the sentence to be over as soon as it’s said.

Humanity is bad about talking about death.

Refusing to admit to its reality leads to pyramids and cathedrals.

As long as we deny death/prolong life as far as possible we will not be fully human.

Life is all too brief - to waste an hour of it is a blasphemy.

Stop deflecting and stop pretending and live in the moment and rejoice in it.

The chance of us being here is vanishing remote - it relied on the dinosaur asteroid.

The spilled seed in copulation. We can’t really be here - and yet we are. Enjoy it.

The fact that anything exists at all - carbon molecules organising themselves in to diamonds.

“Tahnk heavens’.

Living next door to Kerry Packer who was a fellow atheist.

He hated plutocrats on principle.

A $10,000 investment for The getting of wisdom - Packer can you pay for it? Invest it?

The excuse to visit in Melbourne Adams’ office - and there were several alpha males.

It’s 100000 or nothing. And then there was the cheque corrected.

For dinner in this working class restaurant in the Cross.

Kerry was a very serious dyslexic and he found reading impossible. So he became an interrogated who sucked information out of anybody.

About 3am in the morning he wanted to know What was a black hole and Adams quoted Stephen Hawking.

That’s what I’ve got inside me - a black hole.

The kids John and Heather Embling looked after - so was Kerry Packer damaged by a monster father.

Adams’ attitude really softened and then they became best friends.

Adams was Packer’s closet confidant - closest, I mean.

His choice was beyond bleak - don’t do it to James!

Don’t make it into an intergenerational issue - but James is seriously mentally ill - and he has the Packer curse in spades.

1648 - the slide into authoritarian leaders. Putin; Duterte; Trump - a lot of these people are ELECTED!

Could Australia elect authoritarian leader or leaders?

Kicking a the norms of democratic behaviour.

Someone who was born a week after he was - July 1939 - by this leader.

JOHN WINSTON HOWARD. The appalling treatment of refugees. Involvement in the horror of the War in Iraq.

In complete definiace of what the public wanted - the mass marches.

The perverted killing. He chose to accept the nonsense by Dubya and Bliar.

Trump hasn’t done anything really bad - yet.

Prorogue the parliament - advise the Tax Department - advise the police to attack the political enemies.

Violence against democracy - it is in peril.

He jokes when he talks about the United States as a failed state.

Comparatively healthy democracy like Australia.

“Do you still look at the Universe with Awe and Fear”?

“Wonderment and dread” - his wonderment has increased.

The test of a great idea is that its opposite - life is short and it is very long. You can do amazing things in your lifestyle.

The little boy who was terrified of fire and thunder still live-in 80-year-old Philip.

There are more stars than there are grains of sand in Earth. Billions of suns and moons out in the universe.

Many people still believe that God has a role in it or it is.

He can understand the need.

Fidler grew up with science fiction - travelling from planet to planet like country to country.

The distances between planets - a powerful idea! The vast unspeakable gulf between planets in the solar system.

We’re just beginning to understand the Great Paradoxes that advanced brains cannot even begin to comprehend.

It numbs the mind and it exhilarates. It is a dazzling fireworks display.

How is space able to bend? He puts his head up against this idea [Fidler] - it is a contra intuitiveness which doesn’t put against our cave brain.

They stair at their computer screens - they fill their time with their smartphones.

A lack of curiosity - an interest in the Kardashians - more than a cosmic adventure with a rocketship.

A wacky idea - in the future you could upload their consciousness - PA would be up for that - he doesn’t doubt - he’s more interested in artificial intelligence - hand on evolutionary process to others.

Humans will be pets and playthings for advanced robotic creators that look on us with sentiment.

He doesn’t want to have his future uploaded - a pseudoeternal life.

He doesn’t want to be stuck in heaven with people who he has successfully avoided.

Most people will be in Hell - Israel Folau said that - PA was on the list three times.

How are things better than they were when you were a young man?

Favourite aphorism and story - Pablo Casals was 80 and he survived the Spanish Civil War - press conference in Madrid - cogitating and complaining about the terrible mess of the world.

How the world was cuffed - he stopped when he heard his own voice hanging in the air.

Two sentences cannot fit together - they do it perfectly. “The situation is hopeless - we must take the next step”.

That is the whopper - we must take the next step.

We cannot surrender to it - it is the human nature to make things better.

Remaining curious is the best shield against depression and ennui [Fidler].

And knowing nothing is also interesting.

He wrote a list of things that he knew nothing about - astronomy to zoology.

He knows less and less as the common human knowledge increases.

A sense of defeatism and excitement and intensified curiosity.

“I will no longer be permitted to be curious and I will be curious that I’m no longer curious”.

PA’s favourite theme - Wombat Waltz by Elena Kats-Chernin.




[then the Wombat Waltz is played at the end].